Ah! Finally I am going to get paid, after almost two months! I was completely unprepared for this kind of a situation. Whatever little money I was left with, started vanishing sooner than expected and I became officially ‘Broke’ since mid-June. Let me qualify the word ‘Broke’ here. This isn’t that kind of broke where you can’t go on a vacation where you typically go due to lack of funds. This is a kind of broke where I had to debate (with myself) if I can afford to spend a few dollars to buy a Chalupa at Taco Bell or Pretzels at Aunt Anne’s, when I was at the Carousel Mall. This is the kind of broke where your friends only invite you out if they’re footing the bill because everybody close to you knows that you ain’t got no money.
But, I can actually say now that I’m grateful for this period of ‘being broke’. Sometimes the most valuable lessons in life are learned outside your comfort zone. Being broke has taught me how to better manage my money, so I can actually deal with these kind of surprises and eventually be better off financially. Sounds cliché, but it has really been a blessing in disguise.
So, here’s what being broke taught me:
Have a cushion to fall back on. If you’re living paycheck to paycheck, surprises like these can derail your finances. But if you’re prepared, you can better deal with any kind of financial crunch.
Having less leads to greater appreciation for what you do have. Now that I have money, I’d be able to appreciate better, those things that I were not able to do as often for the past two months. Like for example, eating Jerk Chicken at Alto Cinco!
Sometimes, you have to make tough choices. Which is worse: Going an additional $15 into debt because you are too proud to tell someone that you don’t have the money to go out with them for dinner or risking embarrassment by being honest?
Set goals and tune out peer pressure. Unless you have some kind of Goal, you would never save any money. Whatever money you have will drain out so easily in so many different channels. And to avoid the money from draining out, you might have to tune out peer pressure sometimes.
Small sacrifices add up to big rewards. Earlier, I used to spend money eating out daily. But, for the last two months, though unwillingly, I had to eat at home. This has taught me one great lesson, how much I can save if I eat at home! Such small sacrifices like avoiding the urge to eat out, can result in huge savings and eventually bigger rewards.
Just how important money is. It isn’t everything, but everything you want to do involves it. Making it (or having access to it) is paramount. I no longer have any idealistic, youthful notions about money. In fact, I respect it a lot more now, as I do the good advice: “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have.”
So, What has being broke taught you?











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